How to Do No Contact Like a Boss!
By Kim Saeed
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Highly recommended for anyone who is presently in a relationship that brings them pain and misery. This book will give you the emotional strength and practical support it takes to detach from love that hurts. If you currently hesitate about leaving your partner even though you know they are no good for you - you MUST read this book. Includes a special section for the Highly Sensitive Person!
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The Day of No Contact
The day of No Contact can be both exhilarating and intimidating. And no wonder: you’re facing the tremendously exciting prospect of freedom and a better life, but you are also racked with uncertainty and you are dealing with the huge amount of toxic shame and blame that victims have typically been left with by this point.
Your emotions on the day of No Contact may include fear, guilt, and a sense of “letting your partner down”. In the next minute you may feel euphoric, imagining your life free of oppression and darkness. Which feeling wins? In the spirit of an old Cherokee saying (Two Wolves), “The one you feed”.
The best rule of thumb on the day of No Contact is to keep your focus centered on the positives. If your subconscious mind brings up feelings of pain or fear, say to yourself, “Thank you for caring about me. We can deal with that later. For now, I’m working on our freedom”.
How to Do No Contact like a Boss explains the reasons for going No Contact and takes the reader from the initial planning stages, exit strategies, the moment of No Contact, what to expect in the days that follow, and how to deal with a persistent and/or abusive ex who refuses to respect one's request for No Contact. Also included are alternative healing methods that address what traditional therapy often overlooks.
Kim Saeed
Kim Saeed is a recognized relationship expert specializing in narcissism, toxic love, and holistic recovery. In 2013, she founded Let Me Reach, an education company that teaches people to go No Contact and flourish after toxic relationships. She is the author of the bestseller, How to Do No Contact Like a Boss!, which takes the reader from the initial planning stages, exit strategies, the moment of No Contact, and ways to heal in the aftermath of narcissistic abuse. Kim holds a Bachelor of Arts in Education and has a multidisciplinary background including expertise in teaching, banking, organizational development, HR training, and research. Her blog, Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed, has had over 6 million visits and is a resource on PyschCentral. Her work has been shared in non-profit women's shelters and has also been lauded by therapists and mental health experts.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Really informative book that I would recommend to all who need to be free of emotional and physical abuse!