Virginity Crisis

Introduction

Promiscuity and fornication were rare occurrences in the days of the early church. Females were taught the Law of God at an early age and they lived according to that law. Today we are in a state of emergency. Immorality is glamorized, abstinence has become a thing of the past and morals are at an all-time low. We have a generation of teenagers that are without a conscience and the Gospel of Jesus Christ has been reduced to the level of a fairy tale. Fornication is being viewed by society as normal behavior and couples are living together without being married.

Ungodly parents are producing ungodly children. It is a vicious cycle that continues from one generation to the next. The only solution to this crisis is the blood of Jesus. The Holy Spirit must be called upon to intervene and breaks the cycle of immorality through regeneration, transformation, and sanctification. A person must be reborn and their mind transformed to the mindset of Christ. We should not allow the world and the public school system to teach our children sex education. The world sex education course will teach our children to have loose morals and to compromise with society. Parents should teach their children the dangers that are associated with fornication. If we take on a worldly mindset that says They are going to do it anyway we become an accessory to their crimes against God. Education begins early. We should teach our children abstinence, instead of teaching them to practice safe sex. We must instill in them a reverence for God and his Word. The only way to do this is through teaching the doctrine of Jesus Christ. The purpose of this book is to teach sex education from a biblical perspective and to break Satan’s stronghold of sexual immorality in the lives of many who have been deceived.

Chapter One: The Plots of Satan Against Women

Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices.

2 Corinthians 2:11

Satan has devised plots against women designed to either kill them or render them useless in the kingdom of God. He has been using this strategy throughout ages because it has been working. Satan knows well the love that God has for us as human beings and he is extremely jealous of that love. The success of his plots is dependent on the notion that we remain ignorant of what he is doing. Knowledge is power and the more we know about his schemes and how he operates, the better we will be at defeating him. Our invisible enemy has devised evil schemes and plots that are intended to destroy us, render us useless and keep us from fulfilling our God given purpose.

Plot # 1: Rape and Molestation

Satan begins his attack at an early age. He prefers to get a head start by molesting and raping his victims at a young age. His purpose is to destroy their minds. Rape and molestation cause a lot of emotional problems that can last a lifetime. It can also open the door to bitterness, anger, depression, low self-esteem, lack of trust and promiscuity. He knows that these emotions will hinder us from ever becoming effective in life and it hinders us spiritually. It is difficult for us to go forward and fulfill our divine purpose if we are carrying a load of emotional baggage.

Satan attacks babies and young children. They are being sexually molested and used for the perpetrator’s sexual gratification. These attacks are demon inspired. When Satan chooses his victims he doesn’t care how old they are. His ultimate motive is to gain control of the persons for the rest of their lives. Children can becomes so emotionally damaged, traumatized, and withdrawn that no one is seen as trustworthy; not even God.

As Christians, it is important that we pray for our children every day. Intercessory prayer is effective. When my children were young I sent them to school every morning with holy oil on their foreheads. One day the teacher asked my son why he had that oil on his forehead. (She had seen it several times.) My son replied My mother prayed for me. God will dispatch angels to do spiritual warfare on a child’s behalf. Prayer mixed with faith moves the hand of God.

God our heavenly Father is kingdom minded and Satan the great imitator is kingdom minded too. He is determined to promote and advance his demonic kingdom. He wants to prevail against the kingdom of God, even though he knows it is impossible. He would rather fight to the death and go down in flames, than to bow down to God. His kingdom is a defeated kingdom and he is aware of the fact that he only has a short period of time. Satan consistently tries to deceive the world into believing that he is greater than God. His deception is based on the notion that we never discover his weakness. We have the power of the Holy Spirit in us. Satan’s victory over us is based on the hope that we never come to understand spiritual warfare. When we are attacked by Satan, we have to look beyond the situation and ask ourselves What is he really after? If the devil is interfering with your money, he is after your peace. If he is attacking your body, he is after your life. If he plants doubt in your mind about God, he is after your soul. There is only good and evil in the world. We know that ungodly activities and thoughts do not come from God.

God is not evil; neither can he be tempted with evil.

James 1:13

Satan is the culprit behind evil activities. He is the mastermind behind rape, molestation and immorality.

We must do what we can to protect our children. Whatever we are unable to do; God will intervene and do it for us if we pray. Satan has power, but God has Omnipotent Power. He is able to deliver us from the attacks of the devil. Satan used a woman in the Garden of Eden to gain control of the world (even though he was after Adam) and God used a woman (Mary the mother of Jesus) to get the world back. Women are important. Satan does not like women; we make him very uncomfortable. When we are full of the Holy Spirit and focused, we are strong spiritual foes. Men pray, but women pray and travail and have weeping spirits. We are created and designed to be emotional creatures. The devil has a history of launching sexual attacks on females in an attempt to destroy their credibility, to lower their self-esteem, and to cause a defensive disposition. His purpose for the attacks is to deceive the female into thinking that she has messed up so bad, that God could never use her in his kingdom.

Plot # 2: Fornication and Promiscuity

By the time a girl becomes a teenager, Satan has been studying her behavior for many years. Satan must have a legal right to enter into a person and dwell. In the spirit realm he assigns demonic spirits to study the young woman as he tries to find ways to ensnare her. Demons have assignments that they are required to fulfill. Some demons are assigned to a particular family and others are assigned to specific individuals within a family. When a person is under the protection of the Holy Spirit, demonic spirits study the person hoping that person will open a door that would allow demons to enter into that person and dwell. Sometimes demons cannot find an opening through which they can enter. Therefore, they use demonic influence to oppress victims (from the outside) and persuade them to open a door. Satan does this by dropping demonic suggestions and lies into the mind of the person. He does this repeatedly (for a long as it takes) until the victim opens the door. We have to rebuke him using the name of Jesus; it is the only name he must obey.

Fornication is one Satan’s most powerful weapons that he uses to destroy women. He has used it through the ages because it has been effective. Fornication is a poison; it destroys us from the inside out. The only thing good about fornication is the few minutes of pleasure one may receive from participating in it. The invisible truth about fornication is the damage that it does to the soul component of the female.

Teenagers are having sex at a very young age. Some girls are having sexual relations before going through puberty. They are unlearned concerning the spiritual ramifications that accommodate that decision. Before we engage in something, we should do research on that subject. Many young women are blinded by peer pressure and curiosity. These components working together cause the women to act without thinking. Most young girls have never been taught about the danger of fornication. They live in homes where fornication is viewed as normal behavior. Some of them become promiscuous and engage in sexual intercourse with multiple partners.

Being filled with all unrighteousness and fornication… who knowing the judgment of God, they which commit such things are worthy of death.

Romans 1:29, 32

Satan desires to make our young girls whores. He reinforces his deception by repeatedly dropping the thought into their minds that they are worthless and that God could never use them. He leads the young woman to believe that God is angry with her and that He does not love her. He then coerces her into ruining her reputation and destroying her credibility in society. The spirit of self-condemnation lurks in the background eager to take control. He hopes that she never find out that there is forgiveness for her sins and that the blood of Jesus covers all sins. The devil’s victory over the girl is dependent upon her lack of knowledge concerning the Word of God.

There is a story in the bible about a woman caught in the act of adultery. Adultery is a form of fornication. When someone is single, it is called fornication. When a person is married, fornication is called adultery. Look what Jesus said to the woman who was guilty of fornication:

And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst, they said unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act. Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?…But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not. So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him cast the first stone at her.

And again he stooped down, and wrote on the ground. And they which heard it, being convicted by their own conscience, went out one by one, beginning at the eldest, even unto the last: and Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst. When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman where are thine accusers? Hath no man condemned thee? She said, No man Lord, And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go and sin no more."

John 8:3-11

Fornication is a forgivable sin because there is grace and mercy in the covenant between the redeemed Christian and God. However, it does not give us the right to just do whatever we choose to do. Plotting to carry out sin is dangerous. Therefore, no sin should be committed willingly; it should be unintentional and carried out through ignorance.

What then? Shall we sin, because we are not under the law, but under grace? God forbid.

Romans 6:15

The covenant we have with God covers every sin we have ever committed except blasphemy of the Holy Ghost. If we turn away from sin and repent, God will receive us and wash us clean from the contamination and the stench of it.

Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be like crimson, they shall be as wool.

Isaiah 1:18

Some people who fornicate think that it is acceptable to do so. Don’t let the devil deceive you; fornication carries with it a death sentence if we die in such a state. Scripture condemns it. Some people say I will repent later. We cannot fool the all-knowing God. He knows our thoughts even before we think them. God knows the thoughts and intentions of our heart. One of the greatest deceptions that Satan has ever devised is allowing us to believe that we have time to do whatever we want to do, and that we can repent later in life when we are old or on our death bed.

First of all, this is a dangerous mindset; there may not be time to repent and we may not live long enough to get old. Also, a death bed confession is a risk. Most likely, we are only doing it because we are about to face him in a holy courtroom. If we were not dying we probably would not be repenting. I am not saying that there are not true death bed transformations; I am saying it is foolish to take that chance. We should repent while we are young, strong and able to work for God. Some people think that repent means to be sorry for what they have done. Repentance is more than sorrow; although it may involve sorrow. It means to turn away from the sin that has been committed. Repentance is a genuine change in the heart. It is not words spoken on our death bed out of the fear of going to hell.

After Satan tricks us into believing that immorality is normal behavior, he then works quickly to try to kill us while we are out of the will of God. If we die in that state, he wins. All the effort he puts forth trying to ensnare us, pays off if we die in our sins. If we continue in fornication while we live, then we live spiritually separated from God.

The devil looks for any weakness that he can find in us. One of the sinister tricks that he uses to ensnare an adolescent female is The fatherless female strategy. The devil sees the young female as a victim because she has never experienced the love of a father. The absence of a father leaves her open for his attacks. A girl’s first relationship with any man is the one she has with her father; she needs her father just as much as she needs her mother. A mother cannot be a father, no more than a spoon can be a shoe. A mother is not designed by God to fulfill that role. It doesn’t matter how responsible a mother may be, she is unequipped to be the father of the child. She is the mother; nothing more and nothing less.

Fathers who abandon their daughters are selfish and cruel. They leave their daughters uncovered and open to satanic attacks. Early in her childhood, it is important for the girl to hear her father say: I love you, I will protect you, you are pretty, you are smart, you are special, you can achieve success in life, and God loves you." A father should be active in his daughter’s life, so they can build positive memories. He should attend all of