Love, Sex and Attraction: A Short Guide to a Successful Relationship!
By Anni Sennov
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This short guide helps you find out what kind of person is the best matching for you as a partner, or if you are already in a relationship, it helps you and your partner to find a balance that works for both of you.
By relating to a number of key elements in a simple and realistic way, it becomes much easier for both you and your partner to create freedom and space in the relationship and to feel inspired to do something extra for each other.
You will become aware of what is important to you in a relationship and by finding out your partner’s standpoint, you increase your chances of achieving a long-lasting relationship which includes Love, Sex and Attraction.
Anni Sennov
Anni Sennov Anni Sennov is the woman behind AuraTransformationTM, which is a powerful method for expanding your consciousness. She is also the founder of the Aura Mediator CoursesTM which take place in different countries, mainly in Europe. Anni Sennov is a clairvoyant advisor, international lecturer and the author of more than 20 books about energy, consciousness and self-development, as well as New Time children and relationships, several of which have been translated from Danish into a number of languages. Together with her husband Carsten Sennov, she is a partner in the publishing company Good Adventures Publishing and the management consulting and coaching company SennovPartners, where she is a consultant in the fields of personal development, energy and consciousness. Anni and Carsten Sennov have developed the personality type indicator four element profileTM that consists of four main energies corresponding to the four elements of Fire, Water, Earth and Air, which are each present in everyone in a variety of combinations of balance and strength. Multiple courses are offered on how to understand and integrate these elements both for private people as well as businesses. Anni Sennov was born in Denmark in 1962 and originally began her career in the financial world. Since 1993 she has had her own practice of personal counselling and her great strength is her ability to clairvoyantly perceive multiple relevant circumstances pertaining to her clients’ personality and consciousness. She has a very direct approach and consciously provokes her clients in order for them to open up their eyes to various interesting contexts in life. In 1996, after several years of serious illness and years of intense work with New Age Energies, she gained access to consciousness-wise knowledge of the New Time Energy and the future human aura structure, which no one else was familiar with in Scandinavia at the time. This was the dawn of a new controversial trend of having your aura transformed to match the New Time Energy through an AuraTransformationTM. Anni Sennov’s work and books are mentioned in numerous magazines, newspapers and have featured on radio and television in many countries, both in and outside of Europe. On www.annisennov.com you can subscribe to her newsletter, and blog and see her travel schedule and event calendar.
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Love, Sex and Attraction - Anni Sennov
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Love, Sex and Attraction
– A Short Guide to a Successful Relationship!
© 2012 by Anni Sennov & Good Adventures Publishing
Smashwords Edition
First edition
Layout: Anni Sennov - www.good-adventures.com
Cover design: Michael Bernth - www.monovoce.dk
Author photo: Lisbeth Hjort – www.lisbethhjort.dk
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Original title in Danish:
Hvor svært kan det være?
Translated into English by: David Tugwell
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ISBN 978-87-92549-41-9
ANNI SENNOV
LOVE, SEX
AND
ATTRACTION
A Short Guide to a Successful Relationship
good adventures publishing
Introduction
Apart from travelling around the world or getting a good, personally challenging and extremely well-paid job, one of the major goals of many people’s lives is to have a loving and well-functioning relationship, and this relationship must of course be with none other than the perfect partner.
Though few will admit it, most people go around with a secret dream deep inside them that one day the big love will show up and rescue them from their grey and dreary daily life. The big love is simply walking around somewhere out there, deeply lonely like themselves, and just waiting to meet that special person of their heart.
Suddenly one day there is a knock on the door and BANG, they have found each other and everything will be happiness and joy like in fairy tales and in the deep inner dream!
Well love does not always knock spontaneously on everyone’s door, and maybe it is not the best solution for everyone suddenly from one day to the next to share 24 hours of the day with the only one, as there may be different factors and other people to take into account in your everyday life.
Many people today are too little aware of what they really want in their relationships and what the framework surrounding the relationship has to be like for it to be fully optimal for both parties and for any children they might have. They want to have love and all the good experiences, but they do not have a big desire to take on the many commitments that are often associated with a situation involving love and cohabitation.
Therefore to a much greater extent than before, more and more adult and mature people prefer to live a life where they are personally independent of their partner. They therefore consciously choose to live separately in this way so that each can better fulfill themselves in the relationship.
In this way they can more easily look themselves in the eye and defend the way they choose to prioritize in their everyday life, and as a bonus they also escape having to be accountable to their partner, who by virtue of their periodic absences do not have exactly the same claim on information about their daily movements, as would otherwise be the case if the parties lived together all the time.
This form of cohabitation is not strictly a male phenomenon, as you might have thought. It appeals just as much to many adult women with adolescent or adult children who have had enough of the paternalism they have previously experienced in relationships and now just want the space and opportunity to live their own lives without undue interference from their partner’s side.
They have simply become allergic to constantly having to give account of their doings and goings, about their choice of friends and leisure interests, etc., and as payment for their personal independence they will gladly let go of the closeness and confidentiality to another person, which are two very important ingredients in a relationship.
So independence has its price!
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If you want to be independent, you have completely renounced the pleasures that a relationship can give in many areas, as an independent person is someone who acts alone and in their own interests.
In a relationship there are usually two to take decisions on behalf of you and the couple, and there are two to create the stability and continuity in your daily life together that is necessary for the joint framework to work in practice.
Independence in a relationship often leads to a lot of uncertainty between the parties as they do not always know where they stand. The only one who knows with reasonable certainty how an independent person will act is the person themselves. No-one else has any real influence.
But if you actually want personal freedom in your relationship – not independence – this can easily be reconciled with having a life together that is based on trust, confidentiality and intimacy, among other things. In that case you do not simply slip out of the door when it suits you without telling your partner where you are going, just in order to emphasize your independence. Instead you allow yourself the luxury in good conscience of informing your partner – and of course respecting any joint arrangements you might have and your partner’s current needs – that you are just going for a couple of hours to be with some people that you have a great desire to spend some time with.
Freedom is a feeling that comes from within, and it is one which enables us to choose one thing over another without necessarily having an eye on other people’s opinions and prejudices, or any possible unexpressed expectations they might have of us.
The urge for freedom only makes us uncaring if we ourselves want to be uncaring.
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Nowadays there are so many different ways to be together and cohabit, and living together as father, mother and child is not absolutely the most optimal form of being together for everyone. But despite the many different types of relationships that we are able to choose in our lives, there are actually very few people who dare to connect with their inner needs and live them out in the real world in full sight of everyone. But unless you do yourself a favor by finding out what you want at the deepest level in your relationship, you can easily end up doing exactly the same as so many others have done before you, that is, finding a partner who fits in well with your daily life and who you can have some lovely children with. On the side, you can find yourself a lover who suits you well sexually, and apparently none of these partners is the big love as then