Enough is Enough: How To Leave Your Abusive Husband Without Him Knowing and Regain Your Life
By Kitty Greene
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The pain inflicted by an emotionally abusive husband cannot be seen yet cause the same pain and heartache as physical abuse. If you are in an abusive relationship you will know only too well how it feels to have your soul destroyed, your spirit crushed and your hopes and dreams trampled into the ground, at the same time your self-esteem will be at rock bottom. You will be finding it hard to enjoy life, to have any hopes or ambitions or to look forward to the future. Getting through one day at a time is a big effort as each day is filled with fear and dread of what is to come from your abuser. You may be ignored, belittled, laughed at, made to feel worthless, unloved and taken for granted. All these things are recognised forms of abuse and no one should have to live their lives like that. You may have given up all hopes of ever living a normal life, but with careful planning and advice you can escape, regain your life and look forward to your future.
Kitty Greene
I am now retired. I am a Graphologist and Reiki Healer. I love nature and all animals. I ran an animal rescue centre single handed which was very rewarding if not emotionally draining. I am very interested in all things spiritual, being a natural psychic. I brought up a family of three single handed and been through and survived two divorces I have experienced most of lifes problems and come out the other side, so therefore am well qualified to advise others going through something similar, but don't know who to turn to for advice. I love writing and have written for article writing sites, magazines etc.
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Enough is Enough - Kitty Greene
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
HOW TO LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND WITHOUT HIM KNOWING AND RECLAIM YOUR LIFE
KITTY GREENE
Copyright 2014 Kitty Greene
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CONTENTS
About Me
Introduction – Enough is Enough
It’s Not Impossible
The End
Where do You Start ? - Formulate Your Plan
You Must Have a Plan
Money – or The Lack of it
Housing
Schools
Children
Friends and Relationships
Keep It Legal
Please Take Note
Communications
Facebook/Twitter
Pets
Inspiration and Motivation
The Practicalities and How to Find the Money To Leave
Leaving Day
ABOUT ME
I am a survivor. A survivor of domestic violence, both physical and emotional.
I suffered for a long time before deciding to escape. I had no information or advice to help me. Everything I did, all the decisions I had to make I did alone. This book tells of the steps I had to go through in order to leave and reclaim my life. In writing it, I hope it will help others suffering from domestic physical/emotional violence to break free from the shadow of abuse.
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I left an emotionally, mentally and physically abusive relationship a long time ago.
I wanted (needed) to leave without telling my 'then' husband because I knew if I tried to tell him I wanted to leave or wanted a divorce, the consequencies would be unbearable.
At best, I would have been beaten and thrown out with nowhere to go, at worst, I would lose my three children, this was never going to be an option, I would never risk losing them.
I was gradually going down and down, getting more and more depressed, humiliated and scared, I knew I had to devise another plan to get away because soon it would be too late. I was losing hope.
I realised I would have to leave without him knowing, and without telling him. This may seem like an impossible task, and indeed I can't say it was the easiest thing I've ever done, but where there's a