Play-It-Through: Adolescent Prevention Program (Parent Guide)
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A quick-read educational book on how to deal with adolescent drug and alcohol use. Among the many communication tools offered, this guide presents the “Home Contract,” which guides the family in setting boundaries and rules, consequences and rewards for every household member. Specific examples included.
Shannon Rozell
Shannon Rozell is a prevention specialist and author of the Play-It-Through book series: Parent Guide, Student Workbook and Trainers Guide. More information can be found at www.play-it-through.com
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Play-It-Through - Shannon Rozell
Play-It-Through: Adolescent Prevention Program
Parent Guide
Shannon Rozell
If you feel the need to lie, ask yourself why the truth wasn’t good enough. This is where your work begins.
Copyright © 2011 Shannon Rozell
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For print copies, and training associated with this guide, contact:
Shannon Rozell
srozell@comcast.net or
(248) 379-5502
Table of Contents
Preface
Introduction
Chapter 1
-What is Addiction?
-Scientist Virginia Davis on Addiction
-The Doctors Opinion (Addiction) - excerpt
-Relapse is Not A Part of Recovery, Relapse is a Part of Relapse!
Chapter 2
-Is it Addiction, Abuse, or Casual Use?
Chapter 3
-What is a Home Contract?
-The Environmental Setting for the Home Contract
-General Guidelines for Creating the Home Contract
-Examples of Adult Rules
-Consequences for Broken Rules - Guidelines
-The Importance of Details - Guidelines
-Examples of Need for Detail
-Families Involving More than One Household
-Codependency
-Refusal to Participate
-Education for Students in Recovery
Home Contract
Chapter 4
-QuickTest
-Answers and Explanations for QuickTest
-Risk and Protective Factors
-Where Do Adolescents Get Alcohol?
-Why Would a Parent Provide Alcohol to Minors?
-The Best Way to Run a Dealer Out of Town
-The Dangers that Lurk in Your Medicine Cabinet
-How to Properly Dispose of Unused Medications
Chapter 5
-The Importance of Modeling Behavior
-Examples of Modeling Behavior
Chapter 6
-Teens and Sleep: The Internal Clock of an Adolescent
-Resetting Your Teen’s Internal Clock
-About That Cell Phone and Computer
-If Your Kids Are Awake, They’re Probably Online
-Reasons Why Cell Phones Misbehave
Chapter 7
-Life of an Adolescent
-Life of an Athlete
-Facts as John Underwood’s Research Show
Chapter 8
-Denial
-Importance of Structure
-No Structure, No Change
-Motivation for Change
-Reasons Behaviors Do Not Change
Chapter 9
-Parting Thoughts to Ponder
-Don’t Use Your Kid
-Be a Parent, Not a Friend
-Be the Support Your Child Needs, Not an Enabler
-Right Answer & Truth: The Difference
-Rule of Thumb
References
Preface
The intent of this Parent Guide is to educate parents about the differences between use, abuse and addiction as they pertain to drugs and alcohol. This guide will offer some tools and guidance as you navigate your children through adolescence and into adulthood.
While this Parent Guide is an educational resource on its own, it is part one of a three-part series: Parent Guide, Student Workbook, and Teacher’s Guide & Kit. This series was written with the intention of being combined with an eight-session program focusing on prevention, education, and intervention.
To learn more about the eight-session program, contact Shannon Rozell at srozell@comcast.net or (248)379-5502 or visit www.play-it-through.com.
Introduction
In today’s world, our busy day-to-day responsibilities often result in overlooking some important changes in our children’s behaviors; perhaps even discounting them as part of puberty or the natural course of maturing from child to adolescence and into adulthood. Unfortunately, if certain behaviors are ignored or discounted, the end result can be devastating to your child’s development, your child’s future, and sometimes have tragic consequences.
The first tool offered in this Parent Guide is a Home Contract. The Home Contract helps create rules and boundaries in the household with the goal of removing destructive behaviors and restoring harmony in the household. I recommend that all household members read the section on the Home Contract before the first Home Contract meeting. This will provide an understanding of the purpose of the Home Contract, how it works and sets the stage for what will happen if the family cannot come to terms