Guide to Better Sex and Love
By Kenneth Kee
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What is Sex?
Sex is defined as separate male masculinity and female feminity in a human being.
What is Sexual Intercourse?
Sexual intercourse, also known as copulation or coitus, is commonly defined as the insertion
of a male's penis into a female's vagina for the purposes of sexual pleasure or reproduction.
Sexual Intercourse has been called a "two backed beast" by none other than Shakespeare
in his play Othello.
He was of course describing the normal position taken by an intimate couple using a
missionary position.
It is important to realize that the loving and intimate relationship of sexual intercourse is
just as important to the couple as well as the physical act
Traditionally the term sex means the male and female form of the human species.
In modern times, the term sex is now taken to mean any form of physical sexual activity.
Sexual activity can play a strong role in human bonding, often being used solely for
pleasure and leading to stronger emotional bonds.
The intimacy and touching in the sexual act relieves tension and other unwanted feelings.
This breathing during the sexual intercourse improves blood circulation and massaging or
touching certain parts of the body encourages the production of substances called endorphins,
the body's natural painkiller.
People who have a supportive sexual partner manage emotional or psychological distress
better, live longer, and enjoy improved overall health.
People who have a monogamous sexual partner will be free of the fear of sexually
transmitted diseases.
Sex and orgasms promote a long-term calming effect and help keep psychological balance.
More importantly is the bonding and the healthy physical and emotional relationship the
person has with his soul mate that is called love.
A healthy sex life is an important matter in one's life.
Table of Content
Chapter 1 Sex
Chapter 2 Sexual Intercourse
Chapter 3 Sexual Positions
Chapter 4 Sex in Pregnancy
Chapter 5 Masturbation
Chapter 6 Male Orgasm
Chapter 7 Female Orgasm
Chapter 8 Birth Control
Chapter 9 Sex Aids
Chapter 10 Sex and Love
Chapter 11 Sex and Kissing
Chapter 12 Sex and Marriage
Chapter 13 Sex and Youth
Chapter 14 Sex and Age
Chapter 15 Andropause
Chapter 16 Menopause
Chapter 17 Sexually Transmitted Diseases
Chapter 18 Sex and Health
Chapter 19 Sex Problems
Chapter 20 Sex Topics
Epilogue
Kenneth Kee
Medical doctor since 1972.Started Kee Clinic in 1974 at 15 Holland Dr #03-102, relocated to 36 Holland Dr #01-10 in 2009.Did my M.Sc (Health Management ) in 1991 and Ph.D (Healthcare Administration) in 1993.Dr Kenneth Kee is still working as a family doctor at the age of 74However he has reduced his consultation hours to 3 hours in the morning and 2 hours inthe afternoon.He first started writing free blogs on medical disorders seen in the clinic in 2007 on http://kennethkee.blogspot.com.His purpose in writing these simple guides was for the health education of his patients which is also his dissertation for his Ph.D (Healthcare Administration). He then wrote an autobiography account of his journey as a medical student to family doctor on his other blog http://afamilydoctorstale.blogspot.comThis autobiography account “A Family Doctor’s Tale” was combined with his early “A Simple Guide to Medical Disorders” into a new Wordpress Blog “A Family Doctor’s Tale” on http://ken-med.com.From which many free articles from the blog was taken and put together into 1000 eBooks.He apologized for typos and spelling mistakes in his earlier books.He will endeavor to improve the writing in futures.Some people have complained that the simple guides are too simple.For their information they are made simple in order to educate the patients.The later books go into more details of medical disorders.He has published 1000 eBooks on various subjects on health, 1 autobiography of his medical journey, another on the autobiography of a Cancer survivor, 2 children stories and one how to study for his nephew and grand-daughter.The purpose of these simple guides is to educate patient on health disorders and not meant as textbooks.He does not do any night duty since 2000 ever since Dr Tan had his second stroke.His clinic is now relocated to the Buona Vista Community Centre.The 2 units of his original clinic are being demolished to make way for a new Shopping Mall.He is now doing some blogging and internet surfing (bulletin boards since the 1980's) startingwith the Apple computer and going to PC.The entire PC is upgraded by himself from XT to the present Pentium duo core.The present Intel i7 CPU is out of reach at the moment because the CPU is still expensive.He is also into DIY changing his own toilet cistern and other electric appliance.His hunger for knowledge has not abated and he is a lifelong learner.The children have all grown up and there are 2 grandchildren who are even more technically advanced than the grandfather where mobile phones are concerned.This book is taken from some of the many articles in his blog (now with 740 posts) A Family Doctor’s Tale.Dr Kee is the author of:"A Family Doctor's Tale""Life Lessons Learned From The Study And Practice Of Medicine""Case Notes From A Family Doctor"
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Guide to Better Sex and Love - Kenneth Kee
GUIDE
TO
SEX
AND
LOVE
By
Dr Kenneth Kee
M.B., B.S (Singapore)
Ph.D (Healthcare Administration)
Copyright Kenneth Kee 2012
Published By Kenneth Kee At Smashwords
DEDICATION
This book is dedicated
to my wife Dorothy
This book is written from articles of my blog A Family Doctor’s Tale which
educate about Sex and Love
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Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.
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Chapter 1
Sex
What is Sex?
Sex is defined as separate male masculinity and female femininity in a human being.
What is Sexual Intercourse?
Sexual intercourse, also known as copulation or coitus, is commonly defined as the insertion of a male's penis into a female's vagina for the purposes of sexual pleasure or reproduction.
Sexual Intercourse has been called a two backed beast
by none other than Shakespeare
in his play Othello.
He was of course describing the normal position taken by an intimate couple using a
missionary position.
It is important to realize that the loving and intimate relationship of sexual intercourse is
just as important to the couple as well as the physical act
Traditionally the term sex means the male and female form of the human species.
In modern times, the term sex is now taken to mean any form of physical sexual activity.
Sexual activity can play a strong role in human bonding, often being used solely for
pleasure and leading to stronger emotional bonds.
The intimacy and touching in the sexual act relieves tension and other unwanted feelings.
This breathing during the sexual intercourse improves blood circulation and massaging or
touching certain parts of the body encourages the production of substances called endorphins, the body's natural painkiller.
People who have a supportive sexual partner manage emotional or psychological distress
better, live longer, and enjoy improved overall health.
People who have a monogamous sexual partner will be free of the fear of sexually
transmitted diseases.
Sex and orgasms promote a long-term calming effect and help keep psychological balance.
More importantly is the bonding and the healthy physical and emotional relationship the
person has with his soul mate that is called love.
A healthy sex life is an important matter in one's life.
Chapter 2
Sexual Intercourse
Sexual intercourse refer to the physical act of insertion of the male penis into the vagina of the female for the purpose of pleasure or procreation.
Vaginal sexual intercourse, also called coitus, is the human form of copulation.
While its main natural purpose and result is reproduction, it is often performed entirely for pleasure and as an expression of love and emotional intimacy.
Coitus is the basic reproductive method of humans, and may be preceded by foreplay,
which leads to sexual arousal of the partners, resulting in the erection of the penis and
(usually) natural lubrication of the vagina.
To engage in coitus, the erect penis is inserted into the vagina and one or both of the
partners move their hips to move the penis backward and forward inside the vagina to
cause friction, typically without fully removing the penis.
In this way, they stimulate themselves and each other, often continuing until orgasm in
either or both partners are achieved.
For human females, stimulation of the clitoris plays a significant role in sexual intercourse; most women (70-80%) achieve orgasm only with direct clitoral stimulation, though indirect clitoral stimulation (for example, via vaginal intercourse) may also be sufficient
During ejaculation which usually accompanies male orgasm, a series of muscular
contractions deliver semen containing male gametes known as sperm cells or spermatozoa from the penis into the vagina.
The subsequent route of the sperm from the vault of the vagina is through the cervix and
into the uterus, and then into the fallopian tubes.
Millions of sperm are present in each ejaculation, to increase the chances of one fertilizing an egg or ovum.
When a fertile ovum from the female is present in the fallopian tubes, the male sperm joins with the ovum, resulting in fertilization and the formation of a new embryo.
When a fertilized ovum reaches the uterus, it becomes implanted in the lining of the uterus called the endometrium and a pregnancy begins.
Sometimes the ovum or egg may not be fertilized.
Still sexual satisfaction is obtained by the male and female partner.
Chapter 3
Sexual Positions
The missionary is the most common sex position, because it is very comfortable for a couple but there are many other ways of enjoying each other's bodies.
Better intimacy is offered by some positions with better body contact and the opportunity
to embrace and kiss and also offer deeper penetration.
Some positions create a certain sense of urgency and excitement.
The couple may get overtaken by lust going up the stairs or while in the bathroom.
The important thing is to feel all these instincts and feelings, while remaining acutely aware of the other partner's responses.
What are the Sexual Positions available?
SEX POSITIONS
1. MISSIONARY
2. ASTRIDE
3. CRAWL
4. CROSS
5. CUISSADE
6. FIRESIDE
7. FUTON
8. HEAD TO TOE
9. LAP
10. SIDE BY SIDE
11. SPLIT LEVEL
12. SPOONS
13. SPREAD EAGLE
14. STANDING
15. STANDING CARRY
16. SWIMMING
17. URGENT
18. PREGNANCY
1. Missionary
The missionary position is the most popular and commonly used position of all the positions.
It is very comfortable.
It allows good body contact and deep penetration.
The couple can kiss and feel each other at the same time.
The woman lies on her back with her legs spread out and her knees raised.
Her partner lies on top between her legs.
In this position the woman can move to use her legs to clasp her partner's back or
to close them tightly underneath him while he use his penis to enter into her.
2. Astride
Here the man lies on his back on the bed and the woman can sit astride him.